We have gone back and forth. Back and forth. Tuxedo or suit. Tuxedo or suit.
In my original w-day vision, I saw all the boys in suits. They didn’t match. They were all grey. I figured what better time for the Boy to get a suit that fit him well, than for his wedding. I even considered made-to-measure.
My mom’s original vision was tuxedos. “It’s a formal wedding and you’re in a traditional white dress – the guys should all be in tuxes,” she said. “Boys will not want to buy a grey suit, if they’re going to buy a suit they’ll want a black one,” she said. I listened.
I considered the tux option.
Then w-day expenses started creeping up and a quick look into a made-to-measure option for the Boy quickly threw that idea out the window. And I found a grey tux. Hmm… decision made?
We decided we would do some investigating into the tux option. We went to Moores – they did not have a grey tux option. They had grey vests under black tuxes – would that work? No. We went to Tip Top Tailor who is partnered with Freeman’s Formalwear and had this picture in their brochure. I asked if they had one that we could see – for colour and to get a better idea. No. We would have to order it from the picture. I asked if they had orange ties to go with it. Yes! Our sales person then proceeded to show me swatches of peach, pink and brown all the while trying to convince me that what I was looking at was orange. As I continued to veto what he showed me he really won me over by asking, “Does she ever say yes?”
Not to you jerk.
We were on the fence given the cost of renting (for this particular tux we would be looking at about $250 by the time we added a vest and shoes) and that we weren’t really finding something we loved. The Boy ended up vetoing the entire tux when I showed him pictures from a Style Me Pretty blog of a wedding party in this tux. Too light he said. I agreed. While September 10 is still very much warm weather – this dove grey is a summer colour. We’re getting married in the fall. We wanted a darker grey.
Back to the drawing board.
This week I heard on the radio that Moores was having a sale. So I checked out their site and not only was it a sale – it was BOGO – for suits! The Boy and I went in on Thursday night to see what we could find. We found 3 different options for him and learned that EVERYTHING was BOGO in the store, so all of the groomsmen could get a suit for half price. Only hiccup – the sale ended on Sunday.
The Boy made several calls and sent many text messages but we were able to get all of the groomsmen measurements, 2 of them in person and another was able to meet us virtually at Moores in London BOGO shopping with the Boy’s dad. After much debate back and forth our wonderful sales person Liz (she was awesome if you’re in need of a suit in York Region – she’s worth the drive to Newmarket) was able to pull a suit for all of the groomsmen and a different one for the Boy. She then pulled shirts and gave us a wonderful tip – since I’m not wearing true white the boys should not wear white shirts since my dress will look dirty when standing beside them. Brilliant. I never would have thought of that.
At the end of an hour all 5 boys plus the Boy’s dad had suits and shirts for w-day. For the groomsmen they ended up with a $525 suit and $80 shirt for $342. SCORE! $90 more and they get to keep it.
The best part? The 8 different items I got to check off the website checklists. Grooms and groomsmen attire – researched, decision, purchased and ordered. Check Check Check and Check!
These boys are SUITING UP! I couldn’t be happier with the result.